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LAUNCHING 1.11.11 in North America, 1.15.11 Internationally.
Available for pre-sale on Amazon, B&N, and Randomhouse.com. Available as an e-book on 2.9.11.
TOUCH HER. TASTE HER. SEE AND HEAR HER. BREATHE HER IN.
Discover your ever-evolving sensual potential with Her Sweet Spot, a fearless and sexy bedroom guide for women who love women.
IT'S A PROMISE OF SENSORIAL PLEASURE...
Table of Contents
introduction 8
1 Stop and Smell the Flower
2 Pitching the Woo
3 Wit
4 Glow
5 The Eyes Have It
6 Kiss Kiss Bang Bang
7 Temptress
8 Ripple Effect
9 Spank
10 Delay
11 Deprive
12 Sexual Body Language
13 Tell
14 If Lady Godiva Could Do It . . .
15 Show
16 Sublimate
17 Sugarcoat
18 Awaken a Latent Desire
19 Music to Her Ears
20 Demonstrate on Her Lips What You Want to Do to Her Pussy
21 From the Top
22 Epicurious
23 Hips
24 Lips
25 Tits
26 Nips
27 The Lure of Her Neck
28 Knock Her Off Her Feet
29 Talk the Talk
30 The Feeling Is Mutual
31 Treasure the Pleasure
32 Heaven Scent
33 Effleurage
34 Threefold
35 Sweat
36 Whet
37 Tilt Her Paradigm
38 Slurpee Peaches
39 Between the Cheeks
40 Knocking on Her Clit’s Back Door
41 Where the Bee Sucks, There Suck I
42 Touche Pas
43 Fight, Flight, or Fuck
44 Kinking Her Softly
45 Authentic
46 Press Play
47 Accoutrements
48 Toolbox
49 Splosh
50 Steam
51 Preen
52 Billie’s Stopless
53 Swept Away
54 Get Her Kink On, Hard
55 Get Her Kink On, Harder
56 Salut d’Amour
57 Renew
58 Popcorn and Porn
59 Artifice
60 On the Edge of Her Seat
61 Just Fuckin’
62 Gushing
63 Suck Off
64 Pie-Sexual
65 Who’s on Top?
66 Gamble and “Proct” Her
67 Submission
68 Salad Days
69 Shake Your Booty
70 Quickie on Cue
71 Her Dogs Are Barking
72 Giving Good Ear
73 Retreat
74 Packin’ More Than Lunch
75 Have Cake; Will Eat It, Too
76 Abstain
77 Bent into Shape
78 Fur-Lined Teacup
79 Written on the Body
80 Nice Girls Finish First— and Last
81 Anonymous
82 Mind over Matter
83 French Vanilla
84 Mouth to Mouth
85 All About You
86 Team Player
87 Mischief
88 All Wrapped Up
89 Day at the Museum
90 Lose Your Senses
91 Keep Those Shoes On
92 Inunction
93 Petite Madeleine
94 Crack of Dawn
95 Heart on Sleeve
96 Hold
97 Bliss at Your Fingertips
98 Bottoms Up
99 Is It Warm in Here?
100 Bite Your Tongue
101 Verve
Lexicon 212
Safety Notes 214
Acknowledgments 215
EXCERPT
introduction
Her Sweet Spot is a testament tothe wonder and the beauty of women, desire, and pleasure. It’s a pastiche of female sexuality at its most real and fantastic, offering a pathway to a deeper understanding of a woman’s unique sensual potential.
There are so many ways for lovers to discover andenhance their capacities for pleasure. Within these pages are 101 ideasto indulge your imagination and inspire and entice you to explore. It’s my hope that you find this lushly illustrated book to be a fresh,entertaining, and compelling guide that exudes her sensuality on every page.
Pleasure is derived from thoughts, actions, andexperiences. Each woman enjoys various pleasures uniquely and todifferent degrees throughout her life. What she desires, and when andhow, also constantly changes—and ideally, evolves. Even the most confident and worldly woman needs to be reminded that there’s always anew pleasure to be unveiled and shared.
Sexuality and sensuality are not only ever-evolving, they’re complex. Her deepest yearnings originate and lie in her mind, heart, body, and soul. Her sexual appetite, personal passions, and fundamental needs are all intrinsically linked. To find and please her countless and diverse sweet spots, stimulate the whole woman.
Her sweet spot of the moment may be her clitoris, her love of romantic settings, or her preference for a sexual encounter featuring light bondage—it will range from the obvious to the elusive. Her sweet spot is a blend of her physical, sexual, emotional, psychological, and spiritual natures. Finding and pleasing one sweet spot often leads to the arousal of another. To find her sweetest spots, the places on and within her that long to be touched, every aspect of her nature must be explored in the most sensorial way. As you uncover her proclivities and reveal her desires, going on to attend to and fulfill them all is also a dynamic enterprise—and sweet fun.
Making sense of the senses through a better understanding of her unique nature increases her capacity to know the most and best sexual pleasure. To inspire her to develop hersensual abilities and strive for heightened awareness, Her Sweet Spot investigates her attitudes, instincts, dreams, and her body and its responses to all she sees, smells, hears, tastes, touches, and feels.
Falling in love is easy. Staying is love is hard. Pleasure is a priority, like good health, purpose, fulfilling relationships, and meaningful connections. Value her sexuality, and respect, acknowledge, and embrace its complicated nature, and the rewards will never stop flowing.
Deepbonds between women occur on every level. Across the globe, women are giving and accepting pleasure, and confidently reshaping their world around their desires. Women are growing more perceptive, powerful, expressive, and satisfied every day. Her Sweet Spot is designed to create a sexy, funny, and smart atmosphere to stimulate a woman’s motivation to pursue, experience, and enjoy—at minimum—101 paths topleasure.
1 Stop and Smell the Flower
Keep the channel open.
She desires what pleases her senses.
She pursues what she imagines will fulfill her urges.
Passion stems from desire, and many waking hours are spent seeking to satisfy the yearnings that desire stirs.
Live sensorially.
Be aware of the subtle aspects of the world around you.
A faint yet powerful scent causes you to pause, inhale deeply, and endeavor to identify its source. An infectious laugh at a nearby tablegrabs your attention. You turn and catch her eye, and a connection ismade.
Impressions are formed within seconds, yet can last a lifetime.
A single choice has the power to transform everything going forward, for both you and her. Any second can be that second—when everything you know as real is turned upside down. And it’s wonderful!
2 Pitching the Woo
Love shouldn’t be left to fate.
Flirting is fleeting. Charm is transformative and everlasting.
She longs to be and feel successful, interesting, and desired. She’s susceptible to doubts and shoulda woulda couldas.
Engaging her in conversation affirms her ability to attract. And your efforts to entertain and enthrall her convey ambition—and the confidence to pursuewhat you want.
A sincere compliment acknowledges strengths and counters apprehensions. In this comfortable state of mind she’s open to continuing flirtatiousness, and can go on to envision an assortment of pleasing scenarios that will unfold between the two ofyou.
Charm is one part innate, one part studied and honed.
To captivate her mind, body, and soul, mix up the woo, interspersing insights with enticing innuendos and enchanting turns of phrase.
Be direct.
I’ve noticed you around, and find you very attractive.
Be playful.
Did you invite all these people? I thought it was going to be just the two of us!
Seduce the mind to seduce the whole woman.
3 Wit
Make her laugh, genuinely and out loud.
Laughing releases serotonins, the feel-good-all-over neurotransmitters that alleviate stress and promote better sleep, memory, and mood.
Serve it up dry and nutty, fruity and fresh. Dedicate time to improve your ability to discover nuances and make intelligent connections between ideas. Introduce cleverness with ease.
Express your plucky view of the world concisely. As Shakespeare reminds us, Brevity is the soul of wit.
Even the wittiest are not always quick on their feet. Keep a couple of quips, quotes, lines of snappy dialogue, and anecdotes in your pocket. Be inspired by the wit and wisdom of Dorothy Parker, Oscar Wilde, Winston Churchill, and Mae West.
A tickling of her funny bone dissolves inhibitions and clears the way to tickle much more.
4 Glow
Physical attraction almost always happens first, but what shines forth from within you determines your staying power.
We’re instantly drawn to those whom others want to be around. Become the woman whom other women want to know, want to be, and want to be with.
Your body is a pleasure instrument designed to receive and transmit a widerange of sensory stimuli. Activate your sensorial equipment, both genetic and neural, through sexual self-actualization. Once you recognize and embrace pleasure, you can go on to direct and control the positive energy you emit and absorb.
She’ll lose her heart in the lavender haze, instantly and forever, to the rare and alluring woman who radiates beauty, sensuality, and eroticism.
5 The Eyes Have It
Intelligence, influence, attitude, intent . . . your eyes reveal your center.
You’re attracted to her. A glance and then a steady gaze leaves little room for misinterpretation, especially if she’s the one to look away first.
Smile. A smile truly does light up a room.
Lock eyes to gain her trust and respect.
Once you’ve caught her eye, maintain the eye contact while attending to something else, such as unhurriedly pulling on a pair of gloves, or tying or removing your scarf.
Wink at her.
A bold wink is always exciting. It conveys that the two of you now share a secret. It’s a hint of something more.
Excerpted from Her Sweet Spot by Jude Schell Copyright © 2010 by Jude Schell. Excerpted by permission of Celestial Arts, a division of Random House, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher. U.S. $18.99/$20.99 Canada, Sexuality, ISBN 978-1-58761-006-6.
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